The 8.5 GB that showed up as free
The fix in the last post was two more matching 32 GB sticks, and the sticks arrived. Four slots filled, all four the same part number, negotiated speed 4800 MT/s at 2DPC — right in the predicted range. With 128 GB installed I figured the GPU VM could take 114 and still leave the host its 2 GB. The host OOM'd.